The Peer Support Every Practitioner Needs but Most Skip
Peer support is the thing every training course assumes you'll sort out yourself, like guttering.
Peer support is the thing every training course assumes you'll sort out yourself, like guttering.
Working alone in a full diary You can run a practice with a waiting list and still have nobody to ring on a Tuesday evening. This page is about building the peer support that catches you before supervision does, and what it costs, in real terms, to keep it going.
A practice owner spent forty minutes last night clicking through five practitioner websites, hunting for a list of who to call when a client's problem sat outside her training.
None of the five had one. No page, no paragraph, no laminated card by the phone.
That list is the whole job description of peer support, and it's missing from most practices in plain sight. You'd notice a missing kettle before you'd notice this one.
The list you need most is the one nobody thought to write down.
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The list you need most is the one nobody thought to write down.
Isolation in this trade rarely looks like an empty waiting room. It looks like six clients seen back to back and nobody to ring afterwards about the one that went sideways.
Name three people you'd phone this week about a session that unsettled you.
Watch how long the list takes. For most practices it's shorter than the shopping list, and the shopping list at least has bread on it.
Peer support earns its place before the diary fills, never after. It's the ring you reach for at half past five, and right now most people are reaching for nothing.
71.8% of UK therapists earn £30,000 or less a year, and most followed the same growth advice everyone gets handed at some seminar with bad biscuits.
That advice assumed you already had peers to test it on before sending it out into the world.
You'd trial a new recipe on the family first. The testing ground is meant to be peers, and if yours is missing, the advice arrives half-finished.
It's the flat-pack wardrobe with the Allen key posted separately, three weeks later, to the wrong address.
Referral networks get treated like Christmas cards, sent once a year, largely forgotten until December looms again.
A working network behaves more like an allotment. It wants a visit most weeks, or the slugs move in and eat the lot.
Check when you last contacted a colleague on your list for a reason other than fondness.
A referral network needs tending on a weekly rhythm, not an annual one. Leave a greenhouse unwatered for eleven months and see what the tomatoes have to say about it.
Supervision covers your competence. It's the room where a senior colleague checks your clinical judgement and signs the form that says you're safe to practise.
Peer support covers the afternoon when the waiting list has three names on it and self-doubt has turned up early for once, ahead of its usual slot.
These are different rooms, and only one gets funded by most training routes.
You can pass every supervision session going and still go home feeling like the only adult left in the house.
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Building peer support yourself costs real hours every month.
You keep the group meeting, keep the WhatsApp thread alive, keep the conversation from curdling into a complaints desk.
Paying someone else to hold that structure is the other option, with its own bill attached.
Pretending either one is free is the real mistake, the way pretending the boiler services itself is a mistake, right up until it doesn't.
Someone always pays for the structure. The only question is whether it's you, in hours, or a colleague, in fees.
A practice owner in Leeds keeps a spreadsheet of every colleague who's ever referred her a client, colour-coded by how the handover felt.
It sounds excessive, the way keeping a note of who returned your casserole dish sounds excessive, until you remember she's the only one checking whether the arrangement runs both ways.
Test this on your own last ten referrals. See which direction the arrow points.
A referral network that only sends and never receives isn't a network. It's one practice's generosity, propping up another's diary, and nobody's saying thank you.
New clients rarely arrive because a stranger found your website cold at eleven at night.
They arrive because a friend who already trusts you mentioned your name over coffee, in the same breath as the recipe for that lemon cake.
That friend is peer support, wearing a different coat. It's worth asking this week exactly who's wearing it for you, and whether you've thanked them since Easter.
A practice without that person runs on a website and hope, and hope has never once filled a Tuesday morning slot.
Find the peer support that ends the isolation and gets the referrals flowing both ways. Find peer support that builds
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